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3 Phrases That Only a Deeply Unhappy Child Can Say
24.08.2023 05:20
Some children are often sad and feel like they are left out of the family.
Moreover, such a situation may arise through no fault of the parents.
It happens like this: mom and dad love their child, take care of him, but the baby is still unhappy.
Perhaps the boy or girl has problems with peers. It is possible that something is not working out at school.
But it may also be that loving parents still make some mistakes.
So, what phrases does a child say that indicate that he does not feel happy?
"You don't love me"
Many parents are afraid to hear this harsh phrase.
Sometimes mothers and fathers come to the conclusion that the child said this on purpose to put psychological pressure on them.
But the matter is most likely in the baby’s special perception of the concept of “parental love”.
Some parents believe that love for a child is expressed in the desire to work hard for their child. But children are sure that mom and dad love them if they spend a lot of time with them.
A child who is often left alone is unlikely to feel happy.
However, a child who tries to put psychological pressure on his mother and father can hardly be called happy with the situation in the family.
"I don't deserve a gift"
This is another phrase that many parents perceive as manipulation and as one of the ways to “lure” the toy.
However, the child probably says these words quite sincerely. And this is connected with self-doubt and complexes.
"I can't do anything"
Such a phrase can only be uttered by a very upset child who feels like a failure and a klutz.
Calm the baby down and try to help him cope with this or that task.
