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3 Parenting Phrases That Turn Your Child Into a Loneliness: Stop Saying Them
22.11.2024 02:30
A child must have friends. Otherwise, the baby will feel unhappy.
Why doesn't your child make friends? Perhaps it's because he or she can't communicate with peers.
Communication problems can persist into adulthood: a person will never learn to find a common language with others and is unlikely to find friends or a soulmate.
Unfortunately, in such a situation the child's mother and father may be to blame.
There are popular parenting phrases that can turn a child into a loner.
Try to avoid using these lines entirely. Or at least don't say them too often.
"You are the best, the rest are worse than you"
If you constantly set your child up to believe that he or she is better than others, the child may develop inflated self-esteem and arrogance.
Of course, such qualities will prevent the child from making friends with peers.
"Let us solve the problem for you"
Don't solve absolutely all problems for your son or daughter. This approach can make the child dependent.
And don’t rush to “punish” those who “offended” the child in kindergarten or school.
First, understand the situation. It is possible that it was your child who acted incorrectly.
If you immediately complain about other children and support your child even in situations where he himself is to blame, then the child will become arrogant and impudent.
He will feel impunity and be rude to everyone. And such behavior does not contribute to the appearance of friends.
"Trust no one"
It's bad if a child is too trusting.
But there is nothing good if the baby is overly wary and suspicious. Such behavioral features can make the child unsociable and lonely.
For reference
A child is, in its basic meaning, a person during childhood.
