Even a person who does nothing bad to anyone can become lonely.
The fact is that the absence of malice and hatred towards others does not guarantee the preservation of friends and a significant other.
But selfishness, indifference and, oddly enough, excessive trust in people can destroy friendships and relationships. Even if they seemed very strong.
So, what “harmless” habits can make a person lonely?
The habit of thinking only about your own problems
Many people behave in the following way: they gladly accept help from friends, but do not help in return.
Yes, you can justify yourself something like this: "I'd like to solve my own problems. And then I'll come to the aid of others."
True, it will later turn out that there are no friends left.
After all, people are not inclined to remain on friendly terms with “useless” people.
Therefore, try to help at least the closest people. Only in this case you will not remain alone.
The habit of trusting everyone equally
Do you trust a new acquaintance as much as you trust a person you have been communicating with for many years?
This is wrong! After all, such behavior is fraught with the loss of friends and a significant other.
Here's an example: a person made friends with someone and began to spend a lot of time with the new friend. There is no time left for old friends. Result: the new "friend" to whom there was great trust disappears. And the old friends refuse to resume communication.
The same thing happens in romantic relationships: you can “bet” on a new passion and stop communicating with the old one, and end up alone.
