If you believe scientists, then all people without exception lie, although the degree of deception always differs.
For some, these are harmless “embellishments,” while others almost create their own alternative reality.
Of course, it would be more correct to give up deception altogether, experts believe. Therefore, it is worth understanding the reasons why we can deceive each other.
What do they consist of?
Personal gain
This is the most common motive for lying, although it is considered harmless. Many ask to leave work early in order to allegedly go to the doctor, but instead go for a manicure or a date.
Others cheat in order to obtain even greater material gain.
This type of lying is dangerous because it will make you and other people less trustworthy.
Increase your sense of self-worth
Some people find it hard to accept that they have not become someone important and significant. That is why they "show off" non-existent connections, imaginary friends, rich admirers and other status things.
It is worth understanding that such lies are read by your interlocutors on an intuitive level. No one will consider you more significant: on the contrary, people will begin to feel pity.
Fear of hurting someone's feelings
Sometimes we lie just to please the other person and spare their feelings. However, in this case, it is better to act differently.
Try to tell the truth, but in a soft and delicate way. This will bring more benefit to the person.
Previously, we talked about the attitudes and beliefs that prevent you from getting rich .
