It is unpleasant to quarrel with your significant other, relatives, friends and colleagues.
But why do conflict situations arise despite people’s reluctance to spoil relationships with loved ones?
A common reason is that the interlocutors were unable to stop when they started speaking in raised tones.
You need to learn to stop rude conversations in time - and then there will be no serious quarrels.
But how exactly do you stop such conversations? There are a few saving phrases.
"You are right"
Do you feel that your interlocutor is becoming too principled and is ready to start a serious quarrel?
Give in to him. Admit he is right. The corresponding phrase is very effective, reports MOS SMI .
"Why are you acting like this?"
Try to find out the reason why your interlocutor suddenly started behaving aggressively.
Quite often, people who hear this phrase begin to analyze their behavior and calm down.
"Sorry you're having a bad day."
You need to show your interlocutor that you are not angry with him. Sympathize with him.
"Thank you"
A sudden expression of gratitude for something can cool the ardor of an angry interlocutor.
"Let's end this conversation"
If the previous measures did not work, then you just need to end the conversation, making it clear to the person that you do not want to talk to him yet.
Earlier we talked about how to criticize your interlocutor correctly .
