Many people are used to making excuses to their family, friends, colleagues and acquaintances for their supposedly “wrong” lifestyle and for every action.
This desire is explained very simply: you want to avoid criticism and look good in the eyes of others.
However, there are many situations when a person should not be interested in the opinions of others.
There are several things that you can name that you shouldn't justify yourself for.
Dreams
If you have a goal, you are not obliged to explain it, even if it seems ridiculous to others.
It's your personal business. And you shouldn't care what others think about it.
Tastes
There is no need to argue about tastes. They do not need to be explained or proven.
Do you like a weird song? Don't be ashamed of it.
Choosing a partner
There is no need to explain to others why this particular person and not someone else became your soulmate.
Loving parents and true friends will accept your choice in any case. And you won't be able to "prove" anything to critics anyway.
"No"
When you refuse someone, don’t explain: “I can’t because…”
"No" means "no". No need for excuses.
What a person spends time on
You should ignore criticism of your hobbies.
If you enjoy doing something, keep doing it, regardless of what others think.
Earlier we named 5 signs of an intelligent man.
