How to deal with unsolicited advice from relatives: 2 ways - they will leave you alone immediately

05.03.2024 22:21

Unsolicited advice, even if it comes from people close to you, can be compared to rudeness - except that in this case it is covered by care.

How else can you describe a situation where no one asks questions, but everyone gives you advice you didn’t ask for?

Fortunately, there are several ways to help you combat this form of obsessive attention.

The first of them is to unquestioningly agree with the opinions of relatives with a smile on your face.

Of course, your consent is purely formal.

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True, this method has a rather significant disadvantage - to use it, you must have endurance and unshakable self-confidence, otherwise your self-esteem will suffer.

The second way is to give advice in return.

Moreover, you should do this in exactly the same way as your opponents – immediately, without waiting for a question.

Finally, we will share one more piece of wisdom: if the advice you receive from your relatives seriously affects you, it is probably right on target - remember this moment and try to solve the internal problem. Once you do this, you will be able to ignore the chatter of others.

Earlier we talked about how to tame a braggart .

Elena Shimanovskaya Author: Elena Shimanovskaya Editor of Internet resources