The ability to start a conversation without being intrusive is not an innate talent, but an acquired skill.
If you want to master the ability to initiate small talk to create a comfortable atmosphere, diffuse an awkward situation, or learn more about the person you're talking to, use our tips.
Ask a question
This way to start a conversation can be confidently called the easiest.
What to ask? There are many options – for example, you can ask what your interlocutor does or what brought him to this meeting, as well as ask about past events and plans for the next week.
Give a compliment
Compliments are always pleasant, especially for open and emotional people.
If you are in a female company, you can start a conversation with a compliment about the dress or hairstyle of the interlocutor. Do not ignore accessories and appearance in general. If you want to compliment a man, you can note his success in diet, sports or work done.
Hook onto surrounding objects
After, for example, a conference, approach your new acquaintance and say that you liked a certain presentation, and also find out his opinion about it.
Use the topics discussed at the conference to start a conversation. This will help create a relaxed atmosphere and allow you to move on to more personal topics as you get to know each other better.
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