Most lovers are ready to give away their last shirt, just so that their other half is happy.
Over the years, this feeling passes and people remember about personal boundaries, interests and many other important things based on private-property instincts. But there is nothing bad about it.
The main thing is to have time to discuss all the sensitive issues before you and your chosen one go to the nearest registry office.
There are not many of these questions, but they are so uncomfortable. And yet you can't avoid them, otherwise you will learn a lot of unpleasant things about each other.
An awkward topic for lovers
1. With your loved one to heaven and in a hut, as long as your loved one has a full wallet. It would be good if partners had an equally balanced approach to finances.
It may turn out that for one person money is financial security and independence, while for another it is the meaning of existence.
2. Do not hide your real financial situation and do not exaggerate your capabilities.
Sooner or later, your significant other will find out about your income and expenses, which may come as an unpleasant surprise after marriage.
3. There is also no point in hiding your plans and goals.
Be sure to discuss the possibilities and ways to solve the housing problem, other large-scale purchases and, in general, sources of replenishment of the family budget.
4. In addition to the budget, discuss ways of saving money, spending, the need to use loans and the attitude towards debt itself.
5. The most important thing is children and everything related to expenses on children (upbringing, treatment, education, development).
6. The next point is relations with relatives. Of course, also in financial terms.
Find out if you can count on help from relatives, including new relatives.
7. Attitude to work and career building is another important point on which the well-being of the family and not only the material one depends.
What if it turns out that your wife is not ready to wait for you alone on long cold evenings while you languish in endless meetings?
8. But future spouses avoid talking about this and, as practice shows, in vain.
The topic of divorce and all the consequences and obligations that follow from this word.
How will you divide the property and provide for the children? Are you ready to enter into a prenuptial agreement?
It is possible that for some people this question will end the relationship before it even began, but this does not mean that the topic should be hushed up.
