Why is it dangerous to have no arguments in a relationship?

08.10.2024 17:52

If lovers constantly quarrel over trifles, then this is very bad.

After all, the likelihood of separation is high, especially if the partners do not want to change their behavior and learn to seek compromises.

What does a complete absence of conflicts in a relationship mean?

It would seem that this is a very good sign: it turns out that the man and woman live in perfect harmony.

But is it really that good?

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No! It turns out that if partners do not quarrel at all for years, then we can make a disappointing conclusion.

What does a complete absence of quarrels in a relationship mean?

Normal relationships are impossible without quarrels.

After all, over the years of living together, certain problems and clashes of views will arise.

Yes, a man and a woman who love each other rarely conflict, do without shouting and insults, quickly make peace, restore normal communication without problems and solve difficulties together.

And yet there are quarrels. Or rather, there should be.

And if there are none? In some cases, this indicates the fading of love: the husband and wife have ceased to be interested in each other, indifference has arisen. As a result, conflicts have completely disappeared. Such a situation is dangerous due to a quick separation and divorce.

In other cases, a complete lack of conflict indicates that one partner is so afraid of the other that they prefer not to voice their complaints and keep silent about problems. There is nothing good about this either. Such a family is unlikely to be happy.

Kurchev Anton Author: Kurchev Anton Deputy Editor-in-Chief