Usually, a bad habit that destroys a family means some kind of weakness. For example, to alcohol, tobacco, gambling, etc.
At the same time, many people completely ignore the feelings that people have for each other.
Experts believe that in addition to alcoholism and smoking, the desire of one of the partners to keep everything under personal control can kill love in the family.
It's not so much about financial expenses, but rather about plans for the weekend, for the evening after work, for meeting with friends and, in general, for life.
People call such controllers by a simple and capacious word - "stiflers".
This is because trying to control your partner’s life stifles all the best and brightest feelings.
Experts in unhealthy relationships cite unconditional love as a comparison. Dogs are believed to have this gift for humans.
In the human world, this quality is much less common.
How does the desire to control manifest itself? This includes the habit of controlling the contents of the phone, and the requirement for a password from chats, social networks, and so on.
All this points to a blatant lack of trust in one's other half, and therefore to a lack of love.