Idealists believe that we should only enter into relationships, and especially marriage, with those people who completely satisfy us in every way.
This is the right approach.
However, around us there are many examples of marriages between people who are clearly not suitable for each other.
Why do they form an alliance?
Convenience
Living together is a banal means of providing oneself with comfortable conditions for many. Men get an ideal home, and women get the long-awaited status of a married lady.
Some people find it more convenient to save together for an apartment, a car, and other large purchases. There can be many options for convenience.
Material issue
It is no secret that some people are ready to do anything to avoid working and afford a decent life. In this case, they will purposefully look for a wealthy partner who will be ready for such conditions.
In this case, many shortcomings will be overlooked.
Low self-esteem or pressure from family
Many people with low self-esteem are ready to marry the first person who proposes. They feel that no one else in life will pay attention to them.
It also often happens that the family insists on marriage, especially if it is an unplanned pregnancy.
