Before the wedding, many people have illusions. Some lovers are sure of "guaranteed" happiness.
In fact, a visit to the registry office does not always lead to the creation of a happy family.
As you know, many couples face serious problems in marriage and eventually decide to divorce.
How can you avoid getting into such a situation? The answer is obvious: you need to get rid of illusions and understand that your partner is an independent person who will not always listen to you.
Don't set yourself up for the ideal. In this case, there will be no disappointment in your loved one. The chances for a happy family life will be maximum.
So, what facts about men should a woman know before getting married?
Men rarely change
Before going to the registry office, a girl should understand the following: she is unlikely to be able to change her loved one.
Are you unhappy with some character trait of your partner? Immediately set yourself up for the fact that the problem will remain forever!
Not ready for this? Then think about whether it is worth marrying such a person at all.
To be fair, let's emphasize: sometimes men do change. But this only happens when the representative of the stronger sex wants it himself. There is no point in pressuring him.
Men Hate "Emotional Tests"
Before marriage, a woman should understand that her future husband is unlikely to like “emotional tests” and “artificial” quarrels.
Perhaps at first the man will be reserved.
But then he will most likely start “retaliatory” conflicts or simply leave the family.
Men need freedom
And the girl should also be prepared for the fact that her chosen one is unlikely to immediately become a person who spends all his free time with his family.
A man will probably want to see his friends.
He will also periodically have a desire to be alone.
Don't deprive your loved one of such opportunities: give him personal time and space.
