No matter how strong and durable the feelings are, lovers try to test them before submitting an application to the registry office.
Nobody really knows how this check should be carried out. But there is a clear list of questions that can be answered and a decision made.
The Lady Mail.ru publication, citing experts, told about how to make the right decision before submitting an application.
First, evaluate your plans for the future.
Think about whether you are ready to see your partner next to you when you are 60 years old or older.
Secondly, appreciate the time spent together.
If you're constantly thinking about what to do when you're with your partner, there's nothing to decide. In a healthy relationship, the very presence of your loved one brings joy.
Third, evaluate loyalty
The main factor here will be the desire to create a relationship on the side. If you allow such a thought, then it is too early to go to the registry office.
Fourth, are you ready to wake up together?
It is believed that the one you most want to see next to you at this moment and the one you miss in the morning is the most important person.
Fifth, assess the level of trust
In a happy family, spouses should not have secrets from each other. But for this, you need to not only be able to keep other people's secrets, but also be able to listen, support, and give practical advice to your other half.
Sixth, relationships with relatives
It's a difficult moment, but if you don't notice any shortcomings in communication with potential relatives, then there are no questions. Seventh, evaluate the willingness to plan a common budget
Seventh, finances
Your overall plans should include space for shared expenses. This includes purchasing real estate, unplanned expenses, and overcoming other difficulties.
And the most important thing
If you are ready to have children and this idea does not seem strange to you, and your plans coincide with your partner’s plans, then the issue can be considered resolved.