A married man has a mistress? It is far from certain that he will want a divorce!
Such a man is highly likely to stay with his wife (if, of course, she forgives him).
Why do many unfaithful husbands not burn with the desire to destroy the family? There are several reasons.
Fear of loneliness
A smart man understands that there is no guarantee that his mistress will become a real life partner.
It is quite possible that after the divorce the cheater will simply become lonely.
This fear is what keeps many unfaithful men in their marriages.
Guilt
Many unfaithful men feel guilty towards their wives.
They understand that they have no right to leave their spouse alone.
Unwillingness to lose money and property
And some cheating men don't want to get divorced because of greed.
They understand that divorce will lead to division of property and the obligation to pay alimony.
The desire to keep the apartment and money can force a man to beg his wife for forgiveness. Thus, it is not always a matter of guilt.
For the sake of the children
The man probably realizes that his parents' divorce will be a huge psychological blow to his children.
This is why a cheater may decide to leave his mistress and save the family.
Love for wife
Perhaps it is not greed, guilt or children.
We shouldn’t forget about the simplest explanation: it’s possible that a man simply loves his wife, and that’s why he doesn’t want to part with her.
Cheating does not always indicate a lack of love for an official partner.
