In most cases, women support their partners by saying kind words to them.
However, sometimes representatives of the fair sex say phrases that their partners clearly do not like.
There are several popular lines that really upset and irritate men.
So, what should you not say to your significant other if you want to maintain a healthy relationship?
"This is not your first mistake"
When noticing one or another mistake of their beloved man, some women immediately recall their partner’s old mistakes.
You shouldn't do that. Your companion is probably upset about a new failure. Why remind them about the previous ones?
Be more relaxed about your partner's mistakes. And focus more on successes rather than failures.
"But my ex would have done everything right"
Many men perceive this phrase, heard from the lips of their partner, in a clear way: “She is comparing me with my ex. And clearly not in my favor.”
Every woman should understand that any remark she makes that mentions her ex-partner can worsen her relationship with her current partner.
"I don't like it when you..."
Representatives of the stronger sex perceive these words as yet another complaint from their beloved.
Want to make your partner stop doing something? It's better to say the phrase from the "positive side": not "I don't like it when you...", but "I'll be glad if you don't..."
Earlier we talked about what men are afraid of in relationships .