Love is work or hard work. But the work will be more fun if two people work on the relationship.
Otherwise, they become “toxic,” where everything is accompanied by quarrels, hostility, threats, or violence.
Problems between lovers begin long before relatives or law enforcement agencies have to be involved in their solution.
Therefore, experts advise paying attention to the following “warning signs”.
Comfort
If you don’t feel comfortable around your partner or suddenly feel fear, hear ridicule and experience stress, then it’s better not to dream about any family happiness.
Rejection
Rejection of a toxic person can manifest itself on a physical level. Instead of pleasant excitement – stress and lack of sleep, stuttering, fits of anger, even nausea.
Dialogue
Or rather, its absence. When sorting out relationships, take a closer look: toxic people do not allow partners to express their feelings.
If you speak out, you may be laughed at in response, and told that you are making it all up, but that is not a manifestation of sincere concern.
Protection
In this case, you constantly have to prove your importance, but in response you hear comments and reproaches.
Sacrifice
This is also about toxic relationships, but it is your partner who feels like a victim, who avoids solving the problem, admitting their mistakes, and blames you personally for all the troubles.
Earlier we talked about why a man saves on his family .