Nobody said that unconditional love is destined for everyone who is looking for their other half.
Even in low-quality TV series or predictable romance novels, the main characters first have to suffer a lot before they can plunge into unearthly happiness with their loved one.
There are exceptions, but most people have to go through 7 important stages before they can build a healthy relationship.
1. The first stage is falling in love, when a person experiences a physiological need and looks for a partner to fulfill known needs.
2. Then comes satiety, when the goal is achieved, the level of hormones tends to zero, and yesterday's lovers land with them.
But instead of delightful moments, they notice that their partner has shortcomings that are simply impossible to put up with.
3. Then comes rejection. It has been noted that partners or newlyweds have to fight with themselves in the 2nd or 4th year of life together. If you do not accept each other as they are, then the next stage will be divorce and that's it.
4. But if people are strong in spirit, then a continuation is coming - a man and a woman accept each other, seek compromises and solutions to difficulties together, and the first ray of harmonious relations appears on the horizon.
5. Then the lovers begin to respect each other. This is a turning point when the feelings are mutual and the spouses begin to appreciate what they have.
6. This is where the most important thing appears, which may not have been there before – friendship as it is. People understand each other without words, seek and find support, pleasant romance, surprises and terribly pleasant little things appear.
7. And only after passing all these tests, the most persistent, courageous and feminine find true love.
But we must remember that this scenario is not written for everyone and there is always the opportunity to go your own way.
Earlier we talked about why your partner is not happy with your success .
