Communication is an important part of a relationship.
If lovers try to be correct with each other, then love will certainly remain or even become stronger.
But if no one in the couple thinks about the consequences of the words spoken, then the relationship can be destroyed.
So, what phrases exactly should you not use when communicating with your significant other?
"I didn't ask you to help me"
Imagine the following: you cook for your husband/wife, provide moral support, etc. And suddenly your other half says the following: “I didn’t need your help!”
Of course, in this case you will feel unpleasant. After all, the efforts made are devalued.
Don't say anything you don't want to hear from your partner.
"You probably thought that..."
Don't make up your mind for your loved one. It's quite possible that he didn't have any negative thoughts, but you still blame him for it.
"No offense, but..."
It is generally accepted that if you start criticizing someone in this way, the other person will not be offended.
In fact, these words only increase the negative effect. In addition, they often destroy relationships in a couple.
Earlier we talked about how to improve family relationships after a scandal.