Partners or spouses cannot always get by without sorting out their relationship or simply quarrelling.
As experts note, it is not important that quarrels arise. Often, when sorting out relationships, people do not hear each other, which only causes harm.
Experts have given some advice that will help you hear each other at such moments.
Tip number one: don't generalize
During a mutual exchange of reproaches, instead of general phrases, you need to give specific examples. That is, instead of phrases like "you never help", it is better to say "didn't go to the store", etc.
Tip two: unspoken needs
Sometimes requests are perceived as a desire to manipulate. But in reality, the person asking just wants to show concern.
In such a case, the request should be considered as proof of love.
Tip three: aggression
It is useless to talk about anything when you are feeling angry. It is better to postpone a serious conversation until everyone has calmed down.
Tip number four: forgiveness
You can offend someone in vain. In such cases, you need to be able to ask for forgiveness without any embarrassment, and not just admit your wrongdoing.
Earlier we talked about which quality is most important for developing relationships .
