The desire to start life from scratch sometimes remains just a desire. This happens because of the habit of accumulating negative experience.
But experience is a useful acquisition from a past life that should not prevent you from moving forward.
Therefore, experts believe that sometimes past grievances prevent one from building normal relationships, and many do not even suspect that new failures are connected precisely with this circumstance.
Here's what can get in the way again and again and what to do with this baggage.
How does this happen?
The simplest example is the established belief that everyone cheats and that you can’t trust a loved one – they won’t appreciate it anyway.
As a result, all the grievances from the past are transferred to the new partner, perhaps even a very positive person.
As a result, conflicts arise, and the same pattern is repeated according to the old scenario and with the same emotions.
What is the reason?
This happens because the subconscious mind works according to a pattern, not noticing the difference between the past and the present.
Because it is easier to use a ready-made template than to create a new one, and the brain chooses the easiest path, to “try on” old relationships in a new situation.
To get rid of resentments, you need to experience all the feelings again. Good ones and those that can disappoint, because without this you won’t be able to feel something new.
Previously, we talked about what things make relationships stronger .
