According to experts who are well versed in family issues, the most common thing that tests the strength of a relationship is financial issues. This is one of three main reasons.
That is, lovers conflict over money, which causes discord and constant squabbles in the family.
Experts have found a solution to this problem, at least that is what Global News believes, citing psychologist Dr. Johnson.
The reason for quarrels
It turns out that quarrels that arise due to financial well-being are not much different from any other family squabbles.
Dr. Johnson believes this provides grounds for reducing all arguments to one common denominator: the fear of emotional isolation.
How to avoid
It is impossible to build any kind of happy and strong relationship without any money at all.
They determine the quality of life, and their lack is indeed the cause of conflicts and disunity, the expert agrees.
But it’s still not about money or its quantity.
The reason is that partners are not always open with each other about what they spend in the family budget and even avoid such conversations.
Therefore, it is necessary to find out what makes one avoid these particular explanations.
The doctor believes that a few frank phrases can prevent a quarrel, when one of the partners says that he avoids such a conversation out of fear of being criticized, misunderstood, or not receiving approval for his actions.
It is important to emphasize the desire to have an emotional connection with the person.
Financial issues will not be resolved any faster because of this, but the psychologist is sure that partners will feel safer emotionally.
Earlier we told you what a man looks like who will run away at the first sign of trouble .
