Even the most perfect relationships are impossible without quarrels, but they do not pose a particular threat to love.
However, there are some types of showdowns that could easily be abandoned, as they disrupt family harmony.
How to learn to refrain from quarrels
Remember that in front of you is a loved one
Sometimes we want to quarrel not because our partner has actually done something extremely unsightly, but because we have such a need. Often we suppress negative emotions, but sooner or later they will come out.
Therefore, it is always important to remember that in front of you is a loved one, on whom you do not need to “pour out” all the accumulated dirt.
Don't talk when you have strong emotions.
If a person is under the influence of bad feelings, then he may not control his words and even actions, experts remind.
At such moments we say things that we will later regret.
Therefore, it is worth postponing the conversation until the next day, even if you find it difficult to cope with yourself. This approach will be more productive.
Accept your partner
Every person has their own shortcomings that they have to adapt to. This is not a reason to constantly focus on them.
Therefore, you just need to accept your partner in all his complexity and multifacetedness.
Earlier we talked about the main signs of a man who is not interested in a serious relationship .
