A person lives in a society, involuntarily hears what is being said in it, how those around him perceive what is happening. He can filter information, he does it.
But he doesn't always succeed. He makes some social attitudes his own because they seem logical and correct. Some of them actually are.
But there are also myths that society imposes. They are definitely not worth believing, because they are destructive.
I still have my whole life ahead of me
This is what people say when they are facing troubles. If they have failed in the same personal life, they may hear this and also receive advice that they should wait, that a suitable partner will be found.
The only problem is that time is limited. If you always think like that, if you think that you can do everything, you can put off a huge number of things and never get around to them.
I will be happy in marriage
A person can be happy if he is alone and experiences this state. In this case, marriage will help make life even better.
But if he suffers, then the presence of the chosen one nearby can only make things worse. For this reason, it can be said that marriage is not a panacea.
If I hadn't made mistakes in the past...
There is no point in thinking in the subjunctive mood at all. If something was done before, then it certainly made sense. It is mistakes that make an individual who he is.
For this reason, there is no point in regretting them. But one can and should definitely be grateful for the experience gained.
The talented are the chosen ones
There is much talk about talent. Some believe that nature gives a person some kind of gift, and that due to its presence he can become famous, become renowned.
But in reality, success is always based on colossal work, the one who has risen to the top puts in a huge amount of effort. And talent has nothing to do with it.
Such statements should not be believed. They have no meaning, they are false. They can only destroy life, but not improve it.
