Every girl dreams of having a real man by her side. She wants to rely on her chosen one in everything, to see him as her support and mainstay.
She will choose the one who, as it seems to her, meets all her requirements, who will satisfy them. Initially, everything may go as she dreamed, as it should. But over time, the lady may notice that the young man is giving up his positions, that he is losing his grip, that he no longer seems so successful.
Initially, you will want to blame the guy himself, but the young lady should not rush. She needs to remember that she herself could have turned him into a loser. She could have done this if she often said certain phrases.
I myself
Independence is good in itself, but it is not always worth showing. If a girl always demonstrates independence, then a guy will not have the opportunity to prove himself, to show his masculinity.
Gradually he will get used to being in secondary roles, he will not show his strength. He will not be able to conquer any heights in such a situation.
I told you so
Such words finally destroy a man's self-esteem. He has already suffered a defeat that has hit him hard.
If the young lady starts adding fuel to the fire, she will completely deprive her chosen one of the desire to act and change something for the better.
You can't do this
So the girl programs the young man not to fail. She instills in him that he has no abilities, that he is not able to solve some problem.
Gradually, the young man himself will begin to believe this and will stop doubting his own incompetence.
And my ex...
Any comparison of a man to someone else that is not in his favor will deprive him of self-confidence. It will be especially painful for him if the lady mentions her ex.
In this case, his mood will finally get worse. The guy will think that the lady still loves her ex, and will also realize that she does not believe in him.
Such phrases will affect the guy's psyche, will affect his self-esteem. If they are heard by someone who has already become successful, he will gradually become a loser.
