Wise parents, before forbidding their child to do something, will think about the consequences of the decision made.
Children are learning and actively gaining experience, and this period cannot pass without the participation of adults.
In order not to make mistakes, parents need to remember what exactly they cannot forbid their children. Without this, their childhood cannot be called happy.
List of unacceptable prohibitions
1. Before you forbid your child from pestering adults with questions, think about how he can learn about the world without it.
2. Instead of offering to share toys or candy, think that the child is not being greedy at all, but is protecting what is dear to him.
Otherwise, in the future he may face difficulties when he needs to defend his point of view.
3. There is no need to forbid children from emotionally experiencing the loss or breakage of their favorite toy, having fun or singing loudly.
By forcing a child to hide his emotions (positive or negative), you will raise not just a secretive, but a lacking initiative person.
4. And it is complete stupidity to forbid a child to refuse adults or say “no”.
Recently, experts have been persistently advising parents to develop this ability in their children.
Thanks to a timely refusal, the child will be able to protect himself and his personal boundaries both in childhood and in adulthood.
