Few parents have thought about what exactly they should prohibit their children from doing, and what prohibitions can cause harm.
It is no secret that irresponsible and insecure adults grow up in families where there were more prohibitions than permissions.
Prohibitions aimed at ensuring the safety of life and health are not even discussed. And in other respects, experts do not agree with the majority of moms and dads.
What should not be forbidden to children
1. By forbidding children to talk loudly, laugh or cry, parents forget about the imperfect nervous system of children. Children simply cannot relieve accumulated tension in any other way.
In the future, such prohibitions become the cause of neuroses and other problems.
2. Children should not be forbidden to frolic in the street as much as they would like. A child should not be required to walk on the line so that he does not get his new suit dirty.
In this way, parents deprive the child of new emotions, communication, and the desire to develop.
3. Be independent – when children want to do something themselves, but they can’t, or they can, but very slowly.
In this case, you need to help, but not do all the work for the children.
4. Every child should be curious and ask questions as he grows.
Without this, you cannot develop communication skills or broaden your horizons.
