Unfortunately, not all parents communicate correctly with their children.
Some mothers and fathers say phrases that make the child feel insecure, indecisive and fearful.
Don't hurt your own child! Never tell your son or daughter the following.
"Shut your mouth!"
Yes, sometimes children make a lot of noise. In such situations, parents are ready to shout at them.
But you need to understand that demands to “shut up,” “calm down immediately,” and “stop crying” rarely work.
Sometimes the opposite effect is achieved: the child begins to scream or cry even louder.
It is better to talk to the baby calmly, hug him, try to distract him with something. In these cases, there will be a greater chance that the child will calm down.
"There is nothing of yours here."
Yes, it was you who bought your child gadgets and toys. It was you who decorated the children's room and installed the furniture.
But don't tell your child that he has no property.
Saying this phrase is fraught with the fact that the child will no longer feel safe: he will begin to think that something can be taken away from him at any moment.
"Move away, I'll do it for you"
Has your child taken on some task but cannot achieve the ideal result?
Never stop your child or do the work for him! Otherwise, the child will decide that he is a klutz.
It's better to give the child hints. But he should act on his own: let him acquire skills.
"You won't succeed!"
Any child will become unhappy if he realizes that his mom and dad don’t believe in him.
"Have you seen yourself in the mirror?"
Don't want to make your child feel insecure? Then don't mention any shortcomings in his appearance!
Don't call your baby fat, ugly, big-eared, etc.
