It can be difficult for mothers and fathers to find a common language with children who have entered adolescence.
But if you put in the effort, you can get along with even the most difficult teenager.
The main thing is to try to avoid common mistakes that only worsen family relationships.
How to behave with a teenager
First of all, you shouldn’t break the child and put pressure on him.
It happens that fathers and mothers begin to demand that their son or daughter obey unconditionally, punish and refuse to engage in dialogue. This is a serious mistake that can ruin the relationship between parents and children for a long time.
It is important to communicate on equal terms. Any conversation should be calm and friendly. It is worth asking the child more questions about what he thinks about various issues.
Another mistake parents make is that they cannot always set a positive example. To begin with, moms and dads themselves must learn to negotiate in front of their children, not to quarrel and not to demonstrate a love for bad habits.
For example, if one of the parents is constantly late for work, then the teenager will not listen to his lectures about how important it is to arrive to school on time or return from walks.
It is also important to be able to admit your mistakes and apologize to your child. This will show respect from the parent to their son or daughter, which can have a positive effect on the teenager's future behavior.
Earlier we talked about what you shouldn’t forbid your child.
