Many parents complain that they have not been able to maintain contact with their children.
However, sometimes it is worth recognizing that such a situation arises due to the mistakes of adults.
A child cannot forgive all of our mistakes, so it is worth behaving correctly from the start.
What shortcomings are guaranteed to ruin your relationship with your children?
You scold your child in public
Moralizing is always painful for children, but the situation only gets worse if public humiliation is added to it.
Children may forever remember the shame and helplessness you caused them.
Therefore, always conduct educational conversations without witnesses, experts point out.
You do not allow your child to develop in the chosen direction
Adults think that they know better in what direction children should develop. This is true. However, it is worth considering the fact that even a small child has his own opinion, personal interests and preferences.
They also need to be taken into account.
You always doubt the abilities of children
A child wants to know that there is always a mom and dad who believe in him. Otherwise, it becomes extremely difficult for him emotionally.
Therefore, there is no need to doubt the child. At least, there is no need to voice your thoughts and fears.
Saving on a child
Children, of course, do not know how to save and do not understand finances well. However, they can understand that you are saving on them. If you want to raise your children in modesty, then try to clearly explain your position to them.
Otherwise, the child will simply think that he does not deserve the best.
You try to choose friends for your children yourself
This desire of parents is easy to understand: everyone wants a good environment for their child. But you shouldn't choose for your children. Otherwise, one day they will start doing everything out of spite.
Let the children form their own personal social circle. You can only give advice and gently "nudge" the child to communicate with good guys.
Earlier we talked about why married women are in no hurry to have a child .
