Some modern women, even when married, are in no hurry to have a child.
Therefore, it is worth understanding why ladies choose this position and whether it is possible to somehow influence it.
Why a woman is in no hurry to have a child
The material side
It is easy to say that you can raise children modestly: any potential mother wants only the best for her child. If you have a small income, and relatives are unlikely to help in the event of the birth of heirs, then a woman may doubt the possibility of raising children and giving them a decent standard of living.
She wants to succeed in life
Previously, women had only one opportunity for self-realization - through family. Now, ladies are involved in all spheres of life.
That is why many people first want to realize their potential and only then think about having children, experts note.
Health
A woman can't always reveal such personal details even to her husband. If she has health problems, the birth of a child may be postponed.
Only in the case of a trusting relationship can a wife speak openly with her husband on this topic without fear of condemnation.
Psychological moments
Sometimes the desire to have children is blocked by unpleasant memories and associations. If a woman grew up in poverty or her family was far from ideal, she may be subconsciously afraid of repeating this experience.
In this case, you just need to seek help from a reputable specialist.
Life position
Some women do not want to have children, because this is their life position. It is worth finding out about this before marriage. It is not worth formalizing the relationship if you have different life goals and different opinions on such an important issue.
Previously, we talked about the most common mistakes parents make in parenting .
