How to Understand What Your Interlocutor Feels: 3 Ways to Find Out the Most Important Thing

21.01.2025 16:42

This advice is useful not only for those who are going on a romantic date. Such tricks can be tested during business negotiations.

It is believed that in such situations, a sincerely interested interlocutor will act subconsciously, guided by a natural reflex.

Experts have explained how to use three tricks to identify a person with an open heart, rather than one acting on cold calculations.

Option one: pretend to be weak

Tell your interlocutor about a difficult situation that you cannot resolve on your own.

Explain everything in detail and in detail to convince your counterpart that the situation requires clarification.

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At the same time, watch his behavior, how attentively he listens and how he reacts to your frankness.

Of course, being immersed in the topic and showing empathy will show that you are far from indifferent.

Option two: body language

The easiest way is to pay attention to the person's posture when you appear.

The first seconds of the meeting matter.

For example, if, upon seeing you, your friend takes an open pose, then you can be sure that the meeting will be successful.

Option three: create interference

When you sit down on a bench or at a table, create an artificial barrier between him and you.

Ladies can use a handbag, but in general, any object that is between you can serve as such a “barrier”.

A person who cares about you will try to move these objects to the side or out of sight altogether.

These are the simplest techniques that allow you to read a person’s feelings like an open book without any special preparation.

Author: Igor Zur Internet resource editor

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  1. Option one: pretend to be weak
  2. Option two: body language
  3. Option three: create interference