Being able to end an argument in a way that leaves both parties happy is a very useful skill.
A person who owns it maintains good relationships with others.
He acquires the status of a wonderful friend and pleasant conversationalist.
The most interesting thing is that anyone can learn to “extinguish” a conflict.
You don't need to have any special talents or abilities to do this. Just remember 5 simple phrases.
Why do people raise their voices during an argument?
In most cases, this is explained as follows: a person is irritated because his arguments are not accepted.
Give your interlocutor a “gift”: agree with him on certain points.
The phrase “I agree with you” can be called “magic”: it has prevented a huge number of quarrels.
This phrase also makes the argument less serious.
The person who heard this remark calms down. He loses the desire to insult the opponent or shout at him.
An argument has started? Admit to your interlocutor that you did not understand this or that point.
While the other person is explaining the topic, the conflict situation will become less dangerous.
In addition, the parties to the dispute will better understand the issue. Perhaps this will help to "extinguish" the conflict in the end.
If you suggest to your opponent to abandon mutual reproaches and start working together, then the dispute will most likely end.
If the conflict has almost reached its peak point, and there is no way to stop it, then there is only one way out: take a break.
Taking a break from arguing can help opponents relax and let go of their anger.
Earlier we listed phrases that reveal an envious person.