Many people get hung up on their own failures.
They constantly remember these failures and do not give themselves the opportunity to calm down.
This does not lead to anything good: mood and well-being worsen, fear of everything new appears, and the person becomes less active.
But life’s failures can be made into your “helpers”.
Yes, it is quite possible. You just need to react to failures correctly.
There is one simple psychological trick that helps you achieve the desired result.
We need to think not only about the problems that were caused by the mistakes made.
Also, don't think like this: "But if I had done something differently, it would have been much better."
You have to find the positives in the failures you've experienced. And there are positive aspects even in the most serious failures.
First of all, we are talking about the experience that a person acquired as a result of an unpleasant incident.
So, to make it easier to cope with failures, you need to answer yourself every time: “What have I learned from this?”
For example, you were late for work one time. Instead of getting worked up, think: "Now I can get ready quickly and be on time."
Earlier we told you how to quickly recover after a stressful day.