How to achieve success: psychologists advise to give up inflated goals

21.12.2023 14:40

Many of us indulge in dreams of a good life and future almost every day.

But quite often these dreams and desires are too far from reality, which creates a feeling of frustration on a subconscious and conscious level.

Some psychologists even advise stopping dreaming altogether for a while, just to calm down.

But what's really important is to let go of inflated expectations.

What do psychologists mean?

An example would be finding the perfect soulmate with a model appearance and angelic personality – it’s important to look at things more realistically and understand that there are no ideal people.

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Perhaps it is better to look for a soulmate with similar interests and outlook on life.

The second common dream is a big business or untold riches that will fall upon you by the age of 30. It is more important to understand what you want to do in life and what profession or occupation you like.

We previously wrote about why men shouldn't respond quickly on dating sites.

Author: Dmitry Liskovich Internet resource editor