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Who worries more after a quarrel – a man or a woman: most will answer incorrectly
15.11.2024 19:15
A man, no matter how hard he tries to show his strengths in a relationship with a woman, is not at all as thick-skinned as many people think he is.
No, the researchers' findings do not indicate that the man is sentimental and whines after every argument with his beloved woman. But he really does take quarrels hard.
Family relationship experts have tried to explain why men have a hard time dealing with conflicts with women.
Point one
So, if a man has had a fight with you or you have had a fight with him, try to understand that he has just experienced something more than just a showdown.
No matter how much he tried to cheer himself up, for him this was a rift that he tried to avoid in his relationship with the woman he loved.
This is connected with the man's desire to avoid answering. He does not hide the truth, he just wants to avoid unpleasant consequences for himself and for her.
Point two
If a woman touches her partner's raw nerve during a showdown, he will perceive it as a personal insult. If you like, as a gauntlet thrown in his face.
And women at such moments rarely restrain themselves in expressions and sometimes move from the immediate subject of the quarrel to the personal. This depresses men.
Point three
No matter what anyone says, a man really does experience mental and even physical pain after a fight.
It’s no wonder, because he fears that every quarrel could lead to a break in relations.
Point four
The feeling of guilt will force the man to make peace first. But he will not decide to take this step right away. It may take time to get going.
And if he is not guilty, he will be ready to reconcile and forgive a lot for the sake of peace in the family.
