Imagine: you are sitting on the couch, next to you is a person with whom you have spent many years, and suddenly you are tormented by the thought - is he going to leave?
This question may haunt many, but how can you understand that a man is really on the verge of divorce?
One of the first signs to look out for is changes in behavior.
"You always noticed him smiling when you came home, but now his face remains expressionless."
If your partner has become more distant, irritable, or, on the contrary, too calm, this may be a sign that he or she is considering a breakup.
You used to plan your weekends together, discuss where to go or what to cook. And now? "You suggest going to the movies, and he just shrugs." If a man stops showing interest in doing things together, it may be a sign that he no longer sees a future with you.
Paradoxically, the lack of conflict can be a warning sign. “You always thought peace in the house was a good thing, but now you realize he just doesn’t want to engage in conversation.”
If your partner avoids arguments and discussions, it may mean that he or she no longer sees the point in resolving conflicts, as he or she does not plan to stay in the relationship.
Physical distance is another important indicator. "You notice that he no longer hugs you before bed or pulls away when you try to kiss him."
If your partner avoids physical contact, it may be a sign that they have already distanced themselves emotionally.
If your man suddenly starts changing his habits - for example, he used to never stay late at work, but now he comes home late, this may be a sign that he is looking for ways to avoid communicating with you.
"You always knew he didn't like office parties, and now he's a regular." Such changes may indicate that he's looking for new sources of satisfaction or is simply trying to escape his problems.
If talking about the future, whether it's making plans together or just discussing a vacation, makes your partner uncomfortable or avoids it, it may be a sign that they don't see a future with you.
"You suggest discussing where to go this summer, and he says it's too early to think about it." This behavior may indicate that he has already made a decision.
If your partner stops sharing their thoughts and feelings with you, it may be a sign of emotional withdrawal.
"You notice that he no longer talks about his experiences and problems." This behavior may indicate that he no longer sees you as a person with whom he can discuss important issues.