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An unusual reason that destroys relationships has been named: this is no joke
05.12.2024 12:25
There are more than enough reasons for a breakup. Among them are habits of partners that at first glance seem innocent.
Even a sense of humor can become a threat to family happiness if one of the spouses or partners reserves the right to make aggressive jokes.
This is no joke
Aggressive jokes are not just a funny phrase said in a fit of anger.
Experts explain the behavior of such jokers as follows: by responding to a remark with another barbed phrase, they try to avoid responsibility.
That is, if their partner suddenly becomes offended after their words, they will immediately react: why, it’s just a joke.
How to react
If your partner likes to justify the offense caused by a joke and the presence of a special sense of humor, you need to repeat to yourself that if a joke offended, then it is no longer humor.
If your partner makes insults towards you, disguised as a funny remark, then this is already aggressive humor.
All of this is a tool of criticism and manipulation, and everything that your partner considers witty is sarcasm and mockery.
The only correct solution in such a situation is to tell the offender that you don’t like his sense of humor and his caustic comments.
