Relationships with men. What mistakes do women make

27.10.2024 07:20

Many people wonder what mistakes women make in relationships with the opposite sex.

The most common mistake is that women start to behave with men the way their mothers behave. In other words, they are overprotective and over-caring.

Women often do things for men themselves, remind them of this or that event, try to correct them, believe that they cannot do anything well, so they do it themselves.

There is a feeling that a man cannot make this or that decision on his own, because we make decisions for him.

What can come out of such behavior and attitude towards a man? This level of care can be equated to care for a little boy, so do not be surprised if after some time the man behaves exactly like this!

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What will you achieve with such behavior? Often, this leads to the man becoming irritated and feeling inferior. In addition, excessive care leads to the fading of passion in your relationship.

If you want to save a relationship with a man, stop being his mother and become his beloved woman, who does not do for him what he can do himself, treats him as an adult and responsible person, and does not talk to her beloved as if he were a little boy.

In addition, a woman should understand that every person is prone to making mistakes, so one should not exclude the fact that a man can and will make mistakes.

Don't try to take control of all situations, let the man make decisions on his own.

Don't try to always help a man in everything, let him make mistakes and learn from them.

Self-analysis will help you get rid of the role of a mother in relation to your man.

Mentally monitor your behavior, make a list of situations in which you act as a mother to your husband.

You can also contact your spouse and find out what in your behavior he is not happy with. Once you get answers to your question, start changing!

If you have decided to change, be consistent and do not deviate from the chosen path!

Relationships with men are a very interesting and broad topic. All women build relationships with men differently, trusting their intuition or relying on years of invaluable experience.

Author: Sergey Tumanov Internet resource editor