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Decided to confess your love? Don't rush - first answer these 3 questions
10.10.2024 11:56
Have you fallen in love with someone and are planning to tell the person you like about your feelings?
You can be commended for your bold decision!
But let me warn you: haste is very bad.
Don't rush! Before you start a serious conversation with the object of your affection, answer yourself a few important questions.
"How well do I know this person?"
Find out if you have thoroughly analyzed the behavior of the person you like.
Are you sure that you know all the positive and negative character traits of this person?
Maybe "rose-colored glasses" prevent you from seeing the shortcomings of a potential partner? What if this person is so difficult that you can't create a normal couple with him?
Not sure if you know her/him well? Then it's better to wait with the confession! First, get the necessary information.
"Should I try to overcome my anxiety?"
So, you have come to the conclusion that you have carefully analyzed the behavior of your potential soulmate and are ready to confess.
You are probably worried. But is it worth pretending to be confident and calm?
Most likely, this is not necessary. The excitement and hesitation will be proof of your utmost sincerity.
And if a person laughs at you or reacts negatively to your trepidation? Then know: you shouldn't start a relationship with such a person.
"Am I ready for rejection?"
This is probably the most important thing. You need to mentally prepare yourself for a simple and quite probable answer: "Sorry, but I can't (don't want to) meet you!"
If there is no such readiness yet, then it is too early to confess.
