Many people dream of true love, although real examples of dreams coming true are extremely rare.
Often we ourselves make mistakes by initially agreeing to relationships with partners for whom we feel practically nothing.
You can't stay in a relationship, make any promises about fidelity, but at the same time try to find someone on the side. True love implies pure and sincere feelings that cannot start with a lie to another person.
Therefore, find the strength within yourself to end a relationship that does not suit you.
If you are really determined to meet "that one" person, then you should start with your own changes. Take care of yourself and your personal spiritual growth.
Start growing as an interesting and developing person.
If you feel extremely uncomfortable during the first date and want to leave the interlocutor, you should trust yourself. Science has already managed to prove that we understand everything about a person literally in the first minutes of meeting.
If you experience any unexplained unpleasant feelings, you should end the date.