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Honesty in Relationships: What You Can and Cannot Say to Your Loved One
13.10.2024 07:20
It is generally accepted that after the cherished words "I love you" have been spoken, one can openly express all one's thoughts and feelings. Without correction or any "filtration".
No one argues: honesty in relationships is important and necessary. But it is worth clearly realizing what exactly you can and cannot say to your other half.
Otherwise, instead of a neutral reaction, you can get a scandal, a slap in the face and a break in relations without the right to restore. Therefore, let's figure out what you should not share with your beloved.
Jealousy
One of the factors that can destroy a relationship. It is worth noting right away that there are ladies who deliberately provoke their partner to jealousy in order to test his feelings.
And if it is not there, then a break in relations is possible. There are also women who, in principle, do not accept jealousy in their direction.
For them, this will mean restrictions in freedom and in actions.
Therefore, before showing/not showing jealousy, carefully clarify how exactly your chosen one feels about this.
Otherwise, you can get into a lot of trouble.
Comparisons with ex-girlfriends/mother/colleagues/neighbors/stars and so on
If you want to quickly break off a relationship, then start comparing your beloved with others as often as possible.
It doesn't matter with whom, but best of all with your own mother and ex-girlfriend. Then there will 100% be a breakup. And if you are not happy with this scenario, then learn to formulate thoughts/claims and suggestions in such a way that your lady will not even admit the thought that you are comparing her with someone else.
Remember that no one likes being compared to others. Especially if the comparisons are not in their favor. This makes one very angry and hurtful. Especially if it is a loved one who is doing the comparing.
Please note that when compared to your mother or ex-girlfriend, the reaction will be more violent.
Because with this comparison you show that another woman occupies a larger part of your heart. And the current partner still has to “work and work” to “win back” a piece of space in the man’s heart.
Too detailed stories about ex-ladies
It often happens that a partner asks to talk about ex-girlfriends. And here it is very important to understand that it is not worth talking about the past in too much detail.
You will only provoke an attack of baseless jealousy in the lady. And this will ultimately lead to the ruin of your life together.
Therefore, very carefully "filter" what you are going to say. But do not get away with too general phrases. Because then your woman may go on an adventure.
That is, go to your ex-ladies to find out everything yourself. And here the final result is almost impossible to predict.
So do your best to both satisfy your curiosity and maintain your current relationship.
