People who have lived together for several years rarely seek help from a family psychologist. At the beginning of a relationship, they don’t think about it either.
Experts, in turn, note that already at the initial stage of a relationship, most people make the same mistakes.
1. At the stage of getting to know each other, people often make hasty conclusions based on a random phrase, word, or other mistake.
However, full conclusions about a person can only be made by knowing him from his real actions.
2. The transition to a new stage of relations should be timely, that is, when there is confidence in such a need.
Why rush when you can enjoy every moment.
3. You can’t make decisions or think up anything for your new acquaintance.
It’s better to ask directly what he thinks about this or that issue, what his views, plans, and forecasts are.
4. It is important to remain yourself and not play a role.
This cannot go on for long and one day the mask will have to be removed.
5. Important point. If your partner has reported difficulties in a former relationship, complains about relatives, colleagues at work - this is an alarm bell.
It is also worth considering if a person shares plans to move to another country, and you do not share this - in all these cases, there is no point in continuing the relationship.