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How to Stop Fighting with Your Loved One: 3 Tips
03.09.2024 05:50
Updated: 27.09.2024 16:21
Do you love your partner but constantly argue with him?
This is very bad! It is possible that sooner or later the relationship will be destroyed.
Perhaps it is your other half who wants to break up, tired of constant complaints and shouting.
Or it may be that the decision to break up will be made emotionally by you.
How can you stop arguing with your loved one and save your relationship? There are three important recommendations.
Stop in time
Let's start with the most obvious technique: learn to stop before a difficult conversation turns into a serious argument.
At first glance, acquiring such a skill seems very difficult.
In fact, it is quite easy to control yourself and not to start shouting. You just need to learn to mentally pronounce the following phrase in a timely manner: “A quarrel is about to start. And what benefit will it bring? Of course, none. Therefore, I need to calm down right now.”
Analyze your condition
It is necessary to find out each time what caused the excessive emotionality.
Determine what specific statements or actions your partner makes you angry or irritated.
In other words, you need to learn to identify triggers in order to learn to remain calm even in the most difficult family situations.
Learn to find compromises
You shouldn't strive for a complete victory in an argument with your significant other.
It is important to understand that the best option for a couple would be to find a compromise.
But the inability to give in to each other will sooner or later lead to separation.
