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Is it possible to restore trust after a fight: 3 ways to earn forgiveness
12.08.2024 11:43
After a quarrel in a couple, the relationship is tested for strength when the offended party is in no hurry to forgive the offender.
It happens that the offender himself is in no hurry to repent. All this leads to the fact that trust in the couple has to be restored sooner or later.
Experts have explained how to speed up this process and restore trust after a quarrel.
First, you need to take action
The main thing is not to delay solving the problem and not to let things slide. Moreover, you need to act according to the situation.
For example, you can make a number of concessions, and if you previously did not call your partner during work, then you can give up this habit.
You can give up the habit of sitting in chats, and if you really have nothing to hide, remove the password from your smartphone, although this is not safe - the phone can be stolen or lost.
Secondly, communication
It can be difficult to move on to a dialogue after a fight, so you can use SMS or instant messengers.
Here you can write everything that is not easy to say. It is advisable to be sincere and avoid standard phrases.
Third, plan carefully.
Don't expect that after a fight the next day you can come with a bouquet and a gift in the hopes of forgiveness.
Passions and grievances may still rage in a person's soul and heart. But there is no need to wait until all the coals have died out either.
Decide what you are willing to do to restore the relationship, and keep in mind that these plans must be mutual.
Don't rush your partner to make excuses. Be patient and avoid creating new reasons for quarrels.
