A worthy man does not "spread himself" over a large number of women: he chooses one and tries with all his might to impress her from the very beginning of their acquaintance.
The first date will be a great step in this direction.
If you have chosen a girl who appreciates beauty, then you should invite her to an art gallery. Watching art will help you get closer and even open up your companion's inner world.
Afterwards you can continue the pleasant conversation over a cup of tea or coffee.
Many establishments organize tastings from time to time. This is much more interesting than a classic date in a restaurant, as it will give a lot of new positive impressions.
Your companion will clearly appreciate your unconventional approach and attention.
Don't think that this is entertainment only for children: on the contrary, the lady will be able to relax, feel comfortable and return to pleasant childhood memories.
You can also spend time enjoying classic childhood sweets - cotton candy and popcorn.