How to Stop Fighting with Your Husband: Tips for Smoothing Out Quarrels in the Family
Quarrels are often the only option for solving problems when there are disagreements. In most cases, they are accompanied by swearing.
As you know, every couple has disagreements. But not all spouses quarrel. How can we learn to use constructive dialogue instead of swearing?
First of all, you should learn to express your point of view, especially if it differs from your husband's opinion. If you accumulate grievances, then a scandal will soon be inevitable.
Every time you want to quarrel, you need to wait a few minutes and think - is the problem itself worth it.
For example, is there any point in starting a scandal if your husband broke his favorite cup, because the mood is already spoiled. It is much better to talk to your husband and go to the store for new dishes.
If a quarrel is inevitable, you need to try to express your position as clearly as possible without preambles or digressions. Often women recall all of their husband's old sins and thus prolong the quarrel.
You should always be flexible and listen to your husband. As surprising as it may sound, he may be right too.
It is unacceptable to insult each other in quarrels. Such approaches have never helped anyone, but always destroy marriage.
Before you start arguing, you need to ask your partner to fix the situation.
For example, if he scattered things, it is better to say that putting them away is not so quick and easy, and disregard for someone else’s work causes resentment.
Any conflicts should be resolved exclusively by the partners themselves. Relatives and, especially, children should not be included in them.
