How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date Without Getting Rejected: Use Your Originality
The easiest way to ask someone out on a date is to do it in person or while you're getting to know them.
Start with a compliment and admit to the girl that you like her and that you would like to meet her again.
Aziz Ansari and Eric Klinenberg, authors of the book Actively Seeking, say that about 37 percent of young people choose this approach, while 32 percent prefer to send a text message with an invitation, and another 23 percent make a phone call.
These numbers indicate that all of the listed methods are working (otherwise no one would use them), but creativity will help increase the chances of success.
Try to organize a small performance by sending your beloved a basket of flowers, a bunch of balloons or a soft toy with a note about meeting. Such a pleasant surprise will increase your chances of a date.
True, unfortunately, no one can give a 100% guarantee that you will not receive a refusal to your proposal.
Dating coach John Keegan says that if you get rejected, you shouldn't treat it like the end of the world. The reasons for rejection can be very different and don't necessarily have to do with you personally.
If the girl is busy, ask her to name a convenient time and date for a meeting, and if she refuses again, treat it with humor, for example, say: “This is the second time you’ve refused – let’s have you agree next time for a change.”
