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Why New Relationships Were Toxic Too: How to Make the Right Choice
01.07.2024 15:27
Surely, every person has at least one weak spot. People who are more cunning actively use other people's weaknesses to achieve their personal interests.
Such people are called toxic because in their pursuit they cause pain and suffering to their partners.
But if you run into toxic people every time you try to create a new relationship, then it's not them, it's you - that's what experts think. And there are reasons for that.
Childhood trauma
This refers to a negative experience when the relationship between parents or relatives was far from ideal, to put it mildly.
This applies to both the relationship between parents and their attitude towards children.
Therefore, the victim of a toxic relationship in search of love is forced to find it again and again through suffering, but all this happens on a subconscious level.
Self-esteem issues
In this case, we are talking about a lowered bar. Often, victims of abusers do not see their qualities and do not value themselves as individuals.
Therefore, they perceive total control and various forms of violence (psychological, financial, etc.) as the norm.
Fears
Out of fear of being left alone, many people throw themselves into the pool, just so that the best years of their lives are not wasted.
Anxiety arises when friends have already arranged their personal lives. And then insecure people again and again find themselves under the power of narcissists.
Earlier we told you about the 7 mistakes women make in relation to men.
