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How to Translate Online Dating into Reality: A Working Algorithm
03.06.2024 16:12
It is unlikely that anyone will dispute the fact that online dating has long become more popular than offline dating.
If you also prefer to look for a partner on a dating site or in social networks, the following algorithm will help you move on to meetings in real life.
Speed up the process
After a couple of days of correspondence, you can move on to a voice conversation, and then to a meeting. Do not postpone a date for six months, as this will take a long time to find a partner.
Besides, the value of each meeting only increases. It is unlikely that anyone would want to spend a long time looking for a partner, collecting their thoughts, deciding on a date, and then just having a coffee – and that’s it. In this case, the risk of getting into an unsuitable relationship simply by inertia increases.
Keep the first meeting short
Consciously limit the time of the first date by letting your interlocutor know that in half an hour you need to get back to important matters.
This way you can avoid awkwardness if you don’t like the person, and if you do, you can leave a wonderful anticipation before the real date.
Don't forget about safety
Make plans to meet in a public place and be sure to warn your family or friends about who you are going with and where.
Don't be afraid to say "no"
You have no reason to put up with peculiarities, little things that irritate you, and unpleasant moments in communication with this person. The refusals that were made towards you should also be taken calmly: most likely, the problem is not in you, but in the incompatibility of characters.
Don't waste your time and other people's time
If you don't like the person, send a polite message after the meeting and move on.
Earlier we listed 7 female flaws that actually attract men.
